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'Speak when you're spoken to!' The Queen sharply interrupted her. 'But if everybody obeyed that rule,' said Alice, who was always ready for a little argument, 'and if you only spoke when you were spoken to, and the other person always waited for you to begin, you see nobody would ever say anything, so that - ' 'Ridiculous!' cried the Queen. 'Why, don't you see, child - ' here she broke off with a frown, and, after thinking for a minute, suddenly changed the subject of the conversation.
Lewis Carroll
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What this quote means

The quote highlights the absurdity of rigid communication rules that stifle conversation and interaction.

In this exchange from Lewis Carroll's work, Alice challenges a directive from the Queen regarding how one should communicate. The Queen's insistence on speaking only when addressed illustrates a paradox in communication: if everyone adhered strictly to such a rule, meaningful dialogue would become impossible. This quote reflects broader themes in philosophy about the nature of conversation and the importance of openness in communication for genuine understanding and connection.

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In a discussion about effective communication skills.

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