Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Oscar WildeRead
To become a spectator of one's own life is to escape the suffering of life.
Interpretation
Engaging with life as if observing can help alleviate personal suffering.
Oscar Wilde's quote suggests that by stepping back and observing our own lives, we can create emotional distance from our troubles. This perspective allows us to analyze our experiences without becoming overwhelmed, ultimately making it easier to cope with the challenges we face.
In practice
In a therapy session discussing coping strategies.
Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
Being able to live without having to be defined by your skin color is the hallmark of privilege.
It is impossible - now, at this point in the long journey of human culture - to avoid the sense that pain is necessity; that it is neither accident, nor malformation, nor malice, nor misunderstanding, that it is integral to the human character both in its inflicting and in its suffering, this terrible sense Tragedy alone has articulated, and will continue to articulate, and in so doing, make beautiful...
May I not come before You with empty hands, since we are rewarded according to our deeds.
People lose fifty million skin cells every day. The cells get scraped off and turn into invisible dust, and disappear into the air. Maybe we are nothing but skin cells as far as the world is concerned.
Opinions which justify cruelty are inspired by cruel impulses.
I'd like to be born the son of a duke with 90,000 pounds a year, on an enormous estate.... And I'd like to have the most enormous library, and I'd like to think that I could read those books forever and forever, and die unlamented, unknown, unsung, unhonored - and packed with information.
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