My dear heart, never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbor bad thoughts, do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know.
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If you do not possess the staff of caution and discrimination, use the eyes of him who sees. If there is no staff of caution and discrimination, do not wander on the road without a guide.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of caution and discernment in navigating life’s paths.
Rumi's quote suggests that in the absence of personal wisdom or discernment, one should rely on the insights and experiences of others. The metaphor of needing a 'staff' implies that cautiousness and clear judgment are essential tools for making wise decisions, and if these tools are lacking, it is safer to follow someone who can guide you through uncertainty.
Themes
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In practice
Example use cases
During a seminar on decision-making, this quote can illustrate the value of cautious judgment.
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