Never such innocence, Never before or since, As changed itself to past Without a word--the men Leaving the gardens tidy, The thousands of marriages Lasting a little while longer: Never such innocence again.
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It becomes still more difficult to find Words at once true and kind, Or not untrue and not unkind.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Finding the right words that are both truthful and kind is a complex challenge.
This quote by Philip Larkin highlights the struggle of expressing oneself in a manner that balances honesty with kindness. It suggests that communication often involves a delicate negotiation between being truthful and being considerate, indicating that many words may fall short of this ideal.
Themes
CommunicationTruthKindnessWordsHonesty
In practice
Example use cases
During a toast at a wedding, one might reflect on the challenges of finding meaningful and kind words.
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