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To love our success more than God and our neighbor hardens the heart, making us less able to feel and to sense.
Timothy Keller
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote suggests that prioritizing success over love for God and others desensitizes us emotionally.

Timothy Keller emphasizes the importance of love and community over individual success. He warns that when we allow our achievements to take precedence over our relationships with God and our neighbors, we risk becoming emotionally calloused and disconnected from the vital aspects of our humanity that foster empathy, compassion, and genuine connection.

Themes

SuccessLoveRelationshipsEmpathyCommunity

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be a part of a motivational speech on balancing ambition and personal values.

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