Success is self-defined. You can choose what you think success is, and you can always change your mind.
Interpretation
Success is a personal concept that can be redefined by each individual at any time.
This quote emphasizes the idea that success is not a universal standard but rather a subjective notion that varies from person to person. It empowers individuals to define their own goals and aspirations, and it acknowledges the fluidity of these definitions as one's circumstances and beliefs evolve over time.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal development, you could use this quote to encourage attendees to pursue their unique visions of success.
Whereas a lot of Buddhism concerns itself with stages of enlightenment, various precepts and moral codes, and even power structures and hierarchies, Zen is just like, 'Shut up, sit down, and observe your thoughts - oh, and by the way, what you perceive as you' doesn't actually exist.' I loved the minimalist approach of it.
I think people who become compulsive about fitness or eating right, a lot of the time it's out of fear that they're going to lose control or that they're not good enough, so I think anything done out of fear or motivated by fear is often unhealthy.
Many people come to self-help material because they feel like something is wrong with them or the way they are. The problem is that anything that tells you how to improve your life is also implying that there is something inherently wrong with you the way you are.
The first and perhaps most important thing to realize about being happier in life is to stop trying to be so happy in life.
Writing/reading is like visiting another person's brain. And a short book or article is like a short stay. You come in, have a coffee, talk about the weather or sports, and then move on.
I think humility - which I think is a very good value to adopt - is basically an extension of understanding your own ignorance.
Toil, says the proverb, is the sire of fame.
Sometimes you can be one of the best, but you don't accept that if you don't get the ring or win the Super Bowl. There's a lot of good teams between the Super Bowl winner and other teams. Once the Super Bowl is over, we lump everyone into the other 31, and that's not fair.
It's only lonely at the top if you forget all the people you met along the way and fail to acknowledge their contributions to your success.
I'll do whatever I can do to remain employed. I'm just not precious about doing comedy or doing drama. I never want to do something in order to prove to other people what I can do.
There is no greater fame for a man than that which he wins with his footwork or the skill of his hands.
I never went into a tournament or round of golf thinking I had to beat a certain player. I had to beat the golf course. If I prepared myself for a major, went in focused, and then beat the golf course, the rest took care of itself.
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