Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.
Interpretation
The superior individual finds happiness and fulfillment within themselves, while the lesser individual relies on external validation.
This quote by Confucius illustrates a profound philosophical perspective on the nature of self-reliance and external validation. It suggests that truly admirable individuals focus on their inner qualities, values, and growth, while those who are less developed tend to seek approval and validation from others. This distinction speaks to the importance of self-discovery and personal integrity in leading a fulfilling life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-improvement.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
The real problems of our planet are not economic or technical, they are philosophical. The philosophy of unbridled materialism is being challenged by events.
What of it? If I die, I die. It will be no great loss to the world, and I am thoroughly bored with life. I am like a man yawning at a ball; the only reason he does not go home to bed is that his carriage has not arrived yet.
When people are not in the moment, they're not there to know that they're not there.
What citizens of a free country would listen to any offers of good and skillful administration in return for the abdication of freedom?
One likes people much better when they're battered down by a prodigious siege of misfortune than when they triumph.
The Christian gospel is a two-way road. On the one hand, it seeks to change the souls of men, and thereby unite them with God; on the other hand, it seeks to change the environmental conditions of men so the soul will have a chance after it is changed.
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