A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
It's not very interesting to establish sympathy for people who, on the surface, are instantly sympathetic. I guess I'm always attracted to people who, if their lives were headlines in a newspaper, you might not be very sympathetic about them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that true complexity and depth can be found in individuals who may not initially seem sympathetic or relatable.
John Irving suggests that genuine understanding and connection often lie beyond first impressions. He expresses an attraction to individuals whose stories may not elicit immediate sympathy, underlining the importance of recognizing the underlying struggles and nuances within people that may not be evident at first glance.
Themes
SympathyUnderstandingComplexityDepthPeople
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about character development in literature, this quote could illustrate the attraction to flawed protagonists.
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