Every relationship has tough days. Don't let the grudge last. Be the first to try to make things right and stop waiting for an apology.
Nouman Ali KhanRead
Talk with your daughters, Play with your sons. You need to be a better friend to them than anyone else. This society offers lots of evil friends. Before they make those kinds of friends, they need to find their best friend in you.
Interpretation
Foster strong relationships with your children to guide them against negative influences.
This quote emphasizes the importance of open communication and playful interaction between parents and their children, particularly stressing that a parent should strive to be a child's closest friend. By establishing a strong bond, parents can protect their children from negative peer influences and help them understand the value of genuine friendship.
In practice
During a parenting workshop to emphasize the importance of strong familial bonds.
Every relationship has tough days. Don't let the grudge last. Be the first to try to make things right and stop waiting for an apology.
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