If a therapist is feeling insecure in therapy, a lot of therapists will try to sort of push that aside to try to do the therapy. Instead, we would ask people to get with that feeling of insecurity, because after all, the client is being asked to do the same thing. It has a kind of a quality of two human beings in the same situation, really, working through these psychological processes. And yeah, you hired me; I'm working for you as a therapist. But I'm not up here and you're down there. And what you're struggling with, at other times and with other areas I'm struggling with.
The changes that we can make in the culture can be there for people that we will never meet, that will never know us, and that's what keeps me up at … - Steven C. Hayes
The changes that we can make in the culture can be there for people that we will never meet, that will never know us, and that's what keeps me up at …
- Steven C. Hayes
I think the commercial culture, and also science and technology after all, which gives us greater ease but also makes it harder for us to sit with th… - Steven C. Hayes
I think the commercial culture, and also science and technology after all, which gives us greater ease but also makes it harder for us to sit with th…
Your history's not going to go away; it isn't the same thing as dirt on the floor or paint peeling off the walls; it's not going to be solved in that… - Steven C. Hayes
Your history's not going to go away; it isn't the same thing as dirt on the floor or paint peeling off the walls; it's not going to be solved in that…
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life. - Steven C. Hayes
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life.
There are times when you felt especially important to another person, or cared about or loved or accepted. Well, loving relationships aren't somethin… - Steven C. Hayes
There are times when you felt especially important to another person, or cared about or loved or accepted. Well, loving relationships aren't somethin…
I kind of look at what's on the T-shirts and I see another solution, which also worries me. I see "Just do it." "No fear." - this kind of suppressive… - Steven C. Hayes
I kind of look at what's on the T-shirts and I see another solution, which also worries me. I see "Just do it." "No fear." - this kind of suppressive…
Our children are exposed to 10, 20, 30 times the number of words that our great-grandfathers were exposed to. We're exposed in a single day or two to… - Steven C. Hayes
Our children are exposed to 10, 20, 30 times the number of words that our great-grandfathers were exposed to. We're exposed in a single day or two to…
Almost all people suffer some form of intense inner pain at some times in their lives. The suffering might be depression, anxiety, substance abuse, o… - Steven C. Hayes
Almost all people suffer some form of intense inner pain at some times in their lives. The suffering might be depression, anxiety, substance abuse, o…
Most people are hurt deeply by betrayals in relationships. It might be better to really get up against and sort of contact that caring, and maybe tak… - Steven C. Hayes
Most people are hurt deeply by betrayals in relationships. It might be better to really get up against and sort of contact that caring, and maybe tak…
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