It enclosed us in its laceries as we watched the moon spill across the Atlantic like wine from an overturned glass. With the light all around us, we felt secret in that moon-infused water like pearls forming in the soft tissues of oysters.
There is such a thing as too much beauty in a woman and it is often a burden as crippling as homeliness and far more dangerous. It takes much luck and integrity to survive the gift of perfect beauty, and its impermanence is its most cunning betrayal.
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What this quote means
Excessive beauty in a woman can be burdensome and difficult to navigate, often leading to challenges despite societal admiration.
This quote by Pat Conroy suggests that while beauty can be seen as a gift, it can also carry a heavy burden for women. The pressures and expectations associated with physical appearance can be as crippling as the stigma of being unattractive. Conroy highlights the transient nature of beauty, indicating that its impermanence is a betrayal that can lead to significant emotional challenges, underscoring the complex relationship society has with beauty.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about societal standards, you might say, 'As Pat Conroy pointed out, there is such a thing as too much beauty.'
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