All novelists should live in two different worlds: a real one and an unreal one.
John FowlesRead
We all want things we can't have. Being a decent human being is accepting that.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Accepting what we cannot have is a part of being a good person.
This quote by John Fowles reflects on the universal human experience of desiring things that are unattainable. It emphasizes the importance of acceptance and maturity in dealing with our desires, suggesting that true decency lies in recognizing our limitations and coming to terms with them rather than succumbing to frustration or envy.
Themes
AcceptanceDesiresHumanityLimitationsDecency
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about acceptance and personal growth.
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