All novelists should live in two different worlds: a real one and an unreal one.
John FowlesRead
We all want things we can't have. Being a decent human being is accepting that.
Interpretation
Accepting what we cannot have is a part of being a good person.
This quote by John Fowles reflects on the universal human experience of desiring things that are unattainable. It emphasizes the importance of acceptance and maturity in dealing with our desires, suggesting that true decency lies in recognizing our limitations and coming to terms with them rather than succumbing to frustration or envy.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about acceptance and personal growth.
All novelists should live in two different worlds: a real one and an unreal one.
There are many reasons why novelists write, but they all have one thing in common - a need to create an alternative world.
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[A]nd soon now we shall go out of the house and go into the convulsion of the world, out of history into history and the awful responsibility of Time.
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