The Army might screw you and your girlfriend might dump you and the enemy might kill you, but the shared commitment to safeguard one another’s lives is unnegotiable and only deepens with time. The willingness to die for another person is a form of love that even religions fail to inspire, and the experience of it changes a person profoundly.
I don't think people would climb mountains or jump off bridges with parachutes or kayak Class V rapids if those things didn't offer the brief and horrible illusion of imminent death. They would just be complicated, time-consuming endeavors that we'd steer well clear of because they got in the way of real life.
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What this quote means
The thrill of danger motivates adventurous activities, highlighting our desire for risk to feel alive.
In this quote, Sebastian Junger reflects on the nature of human adventure and risk-taking, suggesting that the allure of extreme sports and dangerous activities comes from the fleeting sensation of confronting mortality. Without the potential for danger, these activities might be perceived as tedious and ordinary, stripping them of their excitement and appeal. Junger's insight reveals a deeper truth about the human experience: that the sensation of imminent death invigorates our desire to live fully and embrace the extraordinary.
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In a motivational speech to inspire young adults to take risks.
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