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I had, by thirteen, developed a sort of Taoist hubris about my ability to control via non-control.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects a paradoxical understanding of control through the acceptance of non-control.
David Foster Wallace expresses a complex notion of self-awareness and maturity he achieved by thirteen, suggesting that he recognized a form of confidence or arrogance (hubris) in his ability to exert influence or control over his life and circumstances, not through forceful action, but by adopting a philosophy of non-resistance or acceptance. This idea resonates with Taoist principles, which advocate for harmony with the natural flow of life rather than striving against it.
Themes
ControlNon-ControlHubrisTaoismSelf-AwarenessAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth and letting go of anxiety.
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