I pay very little regard...to what any young person says on the subject of marriage. If they profess a disinclination for it, I only set it down that they have not yet seen the right person.
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She was humbled, she was grieved; she repented, though she hardly knew of what. She became jealous of his esteem, when she could no longer hope to be benefited by it. She wanted to hear of him, when there seemed the least chance of gaining intelligence. She was convinced that she could have been happy with him, when it was no longer likely they should meet.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the complex emotions of longing and regret in love.
This quote encapsulates the intricate feelings that arise when one realizes the depth of their affection for someone only after the relationship seems lost. The speaker experiences a blend of humility, grief, jealousy, and an aching desire for connection, illustrating how love can be both a source of happiness and sorrow, especially when potentially unattainable.
Themes
LoveRegretLongingJealousyHeartbreak
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a discussion on the complexities of relationships at a book club.
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