I've always been Sarah. My gender identity has always existed. I've always been a woman. Gay people aren't straight before they come out as gay, and transgender people are who they are before they come out and transition.
Sarah McbrideRead
Three months before he died, I began to steal things from my father's house. I wandered around barefoot and slipped objects into my pockets. I took blush, toothpaste, two chipped finger bowls in celadon blue, a bottle of nail polish, a pair of worn patent-leather ballet slippers, and four faded white pillowcases the color of old teeth.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the complicated emotions surrounding familial relationships, particularly when facing loss.
In this quote, Lisa Brennan-Jobs shares an intimate moment of her life, revealing how she coped with her father's impending death by taking items from his house. This odd act of collecting symbolizes a longing for connection and memory preservation, showcasing the profound complexity of love, loss, and the desire to hold on to the past amidst inevitable change.
In practice
During a talk on the theme of loss in relationships, I shared this quote to illustrate how memories can be tied to tangible objects.
I've always been Sarah. My gender identity has always existed. I've always been a woman. Gay people aren't straight before they come out as gay, and transgender people are who they are before they come out and transition.
Nobody listens anymore. I can't talk to the walls because they're yelling at me, I can't talk to my wife; she listens to the walls. I just want someone to hear what I have to say. And maybe if I talk long enough it'll make sense. And I want you to teach me to understand what I read.
What was so extraordinary to me about going through this box of my mother's letters and diaries was meeting my mother not as my mother, but as a real person. And what breaks my heart is that I had no idea how self-aware she was and how protective of me she was.
If we're by ourselves we come to feel crazy and alone. We need to make alternate families of small groups of women who support each other, talk to each other regularly, can speak their truths and their experiences and find they're not alone in them, that other women have them, too ... It makes such a huge difference.
Dear young people, Jesus wants to be your friend, and wants you to spread the joy of this friendship everywhere.
Don't wait for someone else to complete you. 'Jerry Maguire' was just a movie.
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