We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
Thus I am not able to exist either with you or without you; and I seem not to know my own wishes.
Interpretation
The quote expresses a deep emotional conflict and dependency on someone else.
In this quote, Ovid captures the paradox of love where one feels incomplete without their beloved, yet may also struggle with their own desires and identity. This highlights the complex and often tumultuous emotions that arise in romantic relationships, where attachment can lead to confusion about one's own wishes and sense of self.
In practice
During a wedding speech to emphasize the depth of love between the couple.
We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
All things human hang by a slender thread; and that which seemed to stand strong suddenly falls and sinks in ruins.
A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
Horror jolts me when I look at one of you and see a pair of beautiful eyes that make me think your mind might contain a world that could hold me as the bolts shake loose and fly from my frame.
When He tells us to love our enemies He gives, along with the command, the love itself.
He had a word, too. Love, he called it. But I had been used to words for a long time. I knew that that word was like the others: just a shape to fill a lack; that when the right time came, you wouldn't need a word for that any more than for pride or fear....One day I was talking to Cora. She prayed for me because she believed I was blind to sin, wanting me to kneel and pray too, because people to whom sin is just a matter of words, to them salvation is just words too.
Until I lose my soul and lie Blind to the beauty of the earth, Deaf though shouting wind goes by, Dumb in a storm of mirth; Until my heart is quenched at length And I have left the land of men, Oh, let me love with all my strength Careless if I am loved again.
We are about to part," said Neville. "Here are the boxes; here are the cabs. There is Percival in his billycock hat. He will forget me. He will leave my letters lying about among guns and dogs unaswered. I shall send him poems and he will perhaps reply with a picture post card. But it is for that that I love him. I shall propose a meeting - under a clock, by some Cross; and shall wait and he will not come. It is for that that I love him.
Kiss me with rain on your eyelashes, come on, let us sway together, under the trees, and to hell with thunder.
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