They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
Edith WhartonRead
..but it seemed to him that the tie between husband and wife, if breakable in prosperity, should be indissoluble in misfortune.
Interpretation
What this quote means
A strong marital bond is expected to withstand hardships, unlike during times of prosperity.
In this quote, Edith Wharton reflects upon the enduring nature of the bond between a husband and wife, suggesting that their connection should be especially robust in times of adversity. The implication is that while many relationships may falter when faced with success or ease, true partnerships are proven through the trials of misfortune, highlighting the idea that love and commitment are most vital in challenging times.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipLoveAdversityCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of standing together in tough times.
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