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Do not waste time bothering whether you "love" your neighbor; act as if you did.
C. S. Lewis
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Acting with love towards others can cultivate genuine feelings of love.

C. S. Lewis suggests that the act of caring for others should not be contingent on our feelings. By behaving as if we love our neighbors, we can create a positive environment that fosters genuine love and connection, regardless of our initial emotions.

Themes

LoveActNeighborsEmpathyKindness

In practice

Example use cases

Using this quote during a community service event to inspire volunteers.

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