Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
At times our need for a sympathetic gesture is so great that we care not what exactly it signifies or how much we may have to pay for it afterwards.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We sometimes seek sympathy and comfort without considering the consequences.
This quote by E. M. Forster highlights the deep human need for empathy and support from others. It suggests that in moments of emotional vulnerability, individuals may overlook the implications of seeking comfort, prioritizing their immediate need for connection over potential future repercussions, demonstrating the complex nature of human relationships and emotional dynamics.
Themes
SympathyGestureRelationshipHuman ConnectionEmpathy
In practice
Example use cases
A therapist might use this quote to emphasize the importance of emotional support during tough times.
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