To discover your real questions, simply take a time-out. Stop looking ahead of yourself at where you’re going or backward at where you’ve been. When you do stop, there’s a sense of going nowhere. There’s a sense of gap, which is a tremendous relief. You can simply breathe and be who you are.
The true opponent in a debate on emptiness is your own ego.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The main challenge in discussing emptiness lies within ourselves, particularly our egos. We must confront our own biases and pride to engage in meaningful dialogue.
This quote emphasizes that the greatest obstacle we face when grappling with concepts like emptiness is our own ego. In any debate, it's easy to become defensive or overly invested in our viewpoints, but true understanding comes from recognizing and setting aside our personal biases. This self-awareness can lead to deeper insights and more authentic discussions about profound topics.
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In practice
Example use cases
When discussing controversial ideas in a philosophy class, this quote reminds students to check their egos at the door.
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