I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
To understand the true quality of people, you must look into their minds, and examine their pursuits and aversions.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Understanding others requires insight into their thoughts and motivations.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius emphasizes the importance of looking beyond surface appearances to truly comprehend the nature of individuals. It suggests that to grasp the essence of a person, one must consider their beliefs, desires, and what they shun, as these factors reveal their true character and values.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, one might quote this to emphasize the value of empathy in understanding colleagues' viewpoints.
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