To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets.
MenciusRead
Truth uttered before its time is dangerous.
Interpretation
Speaking the truth at the wrong time can have harmful consequences.
This quote highlights the importance of timing when it comes to expressing the truth. Mencius suggests that while truth is valuable, revealing it prematurely can lead to misunderstandings, conflict, or even danger, emphasizing the need for careful consideration of both the message and the moment when sharing it.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, this quote can be used to discuss the importance of choosing the right moment to share difficult truths.
To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets.
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