Until you are willing to be confused about what you already know, what you know will never grow bigger, better, or more useful.
Milton H. EricksonRead
The unconscious mind is decidedly simple, unaffected, straightforward and honest. It hasn't got all of this facade, this veneer of what we call adult culture. It's rather simple, rather childish It is direct and free.
Interpretation
The unconscious mind is pure and uncomplicated, free from societal constructs and complexities.
Milton H. Erickson highlights that the unconscious mind operates without the filters or pretensions of adult society. It embodies simplicity and honesty, presenting thoughts and feelings in a straightforward manner that can often reflect a child's perspective, free from the complications that adult life imposes.
In practice
In a psychology lecture discussing the nature of the unconscious mind.
Until you are willing to be confused about what you already know, what you know will never grow bigger, better, or more useful.
Each person is a unique individual. Hence, psychotherapy should be formulated to meet the uniqueness of the individual's needs, rather than tailoring the person to fit the Procrustean bed of a hypothetical theory of human behavior.
You use hypnosis not as a cure but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn.
Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change.
Psychology should be just as concerned with building strength as with repairing damage
In psychology and behavioral economics, people have shown that if you just describe options in a certain way, or make some features of a situation salient, you can get people to do and even see what you want. You don't have to be a Jedi to manipulate people's attention.
It may be true in the case of autism that if you start off with a deficit in terms of empathy or mind reading, you've just got more time to devote to understanding the world by systemizing.
Worrying about scarcity is our culture's version of post-traumatic stress. It happens when we've been through too much, and rather than coming together to heal (which requires vulnerability) we're angry and scared and at each other's throats.
Last time I talked to her she didn't sound like herself. She's depressed. It's awful what happens when people run out of money. They start thinking they're no good.
Shyness is the fear of social disapproval or humiliation, while introversion is a preference for environments that are not overstimulating. Shyness is inherently painful; introversion is not.
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