Never promise more than you can perform.
Publilius SyrusRead
Unless you make allowances for your friends foibles, you betray your own.
Interpretation
Accepting your friends' imperfections is essential for true friendship.
This quote emphasizes the importance of tolerance and understanding in friendships. It suggests that by not accepting the flaws and quirks of our friends, we are ultimately being hypocritical, as we too have our imperfections that deserve acceptance and compassion from others.
In practice
During a speech about the importance of friendship at a community event.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Pain forces even the innocent to lie.
In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth.
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
What a tragedy is help where it harms what it supports!
The miser is as much in want of what he has as of what he has not.
There is nothing sweeter than to be sympathized with.
We Masons are among the fortunate ones who are taught to meet together with others opposing convictions or competitive ideas and yet respect each other as Brothers.
Do not desert a friend in time of need, nor forsake him nor fail him, for friendship is the support of life. Let us then bear our burdens as the Apostle has taught (cf. Gal. 6:2): for he spoke to those whom the charity of the same one body had embraced together. If friends in prosperity help friends, why do they not also in times of adversity offer their support? Let us aid by giving counsel, let us offer our best endeavors, let us sympathize with them with all our heart.
Few friendships would survive if each one knew what his friend says of him behind his back.
Let us drink together, fellows, as we did in days of yore. And still enjoy the golden hours that Fortune has in store; The absent friends remembered be, in all thatβs sung or said, And Love immortal consecrate the memory of the dead.
Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.
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