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Each of us must turn inward and destroy in himself all that he thinks he ought to destroy in others.
Etty Hillesum
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We must confront and eliminate our own negative traits rather than trying to change others.

Etty Hillesum's quote emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and personal responsibility. Instead of projecting our flaws onto others and seeking to change them, we should focus on our own growth and transformation, allowing us to cultivate a more compassionate and understanding perspective towards ourselves and those around us.

Themes

Self-ReflectionPersonal GrowthCompassionChangeResponsibility

In practice

Example use cases

In a team meeting, when discussing personal accountability.

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