Which of us can resist the temptation of being thought indispensable?
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the human desire to feel essential and valued in relationships or roles.
Margaret Atwood's quote explores the notion of indispensability and how it is a tempting idea for many people. It suggests that the desire to be seen as crucial or necessary can lead individuals to cling to certain positions or relationships, often blinding them to the reality of their situation and the nature of their interactions with others. This highlights the complexities of human ego and our need for validation.
In practice
In a leadership seminar to discuss the importance of teamwork over individual roles.
If I am good enough and quiet enough, perhaps after all they will let me go; but it’s not easy being quiet and good, it’s like hanging on to the edge of a bridge when you’ve already fallen over; you don’t seem to be moving, just dangling there, and yet it is taking all your strength.
I would like to believe this is a story I’m telling. I need to believe it. I must believe it. Those who can believe that such stories are only stories have a better chance. If it’s a story I’m telling, then I have control over the ending. Then there will be an ending, to the story, and real life will come after it. I can pick up where I left off.
What else can I do? Once you've gone this far you aren't fit for anything else. Something happens to your mind. You're overqualified, overspecialized, and everybody knows it. Nobody in any other game would be crazy enough to hire me. I wouldn't even make a good ditch-digger, I'd start tearing apart the sewer-system, trying to pick-axe and unearth all those chthonic symbols - pipes, valves, cloacal conduits... No, no. I'll have to be a slave in the paper-mines for all time.
We love each other, that’s true whatever it means, but we aren’t good at it; for some it’s a talent, for others only an addiction.
I've learned quite a lot, over the years, by avoiding what I was supposed to be learning.
Knowing too much about other people puts you in their power, they have a claim on you, you are forced to understand their reasons for doing things and then you are weakened.
No form of violence can ever be excused in a society that wishes to call itself decent
At a certain age, you have to live near good medical care — if, that is, you're going to continue. You always have the option of not continuing, which, I fear, is sometimes nobler.
Whoever despises himself nonetheless respects himself as one who despises.
A house isn't a home without the ineffable contentment of a cat with its tail folded about its feet. A cat gives mystery, charm, suggestion.
It is impossible for someone to lie unless he thinks he knows the truth. Producing bullshit requires no such conviction.
There are big questions science doesn't answer, such as why is there something rather than nothing? There can't be a scientific answer to that because it's the answer that precedes science.
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