(on grief) And you do come out of it, that’s true. After a year, after five. But you don’t come out of it like a train coming out of a tunnel, bursting through the downs into sunshine and that swift, rattling descent to the Channel; you come out of it as a gull comes out of an oil-slick. You are tarred and feathered for life.
Why does the writing make us chase the writer? Why can't we leave well enough alone? Why aren't the books enough?
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the deep connection readers feel with writers, suggesting that there is an intrinsic desire to understand the author beyond their written words.
Julian Barnes's quote delves into the complex relationship between readers and writers. It questions why the act of writing compels readers to seek more from the author, suggesting that literature alone is not sufficient to satisfy the curiosity and longing that arise from engaging with a book. This yearning might stem from a desire for personal insights or the aspiration to connect with the writer's experiences and thoughts, illustrating how deeply intertwined art and its creator can be.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a book club discussion about character motivations.
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All quotes →Is despair wrong? Isn’t it the natural condition of life after a certain age? … After a number of events, what is there left but repetition and diminishment? Who wants to go on living? The eccentric, the religious, the artistic (sometimes); those with a false sense of their own worth. Soft cheeses collapse; firm cheeses endurate. Both go mouldy.
It took me some years to clear my head of what Paris wanted me to admire about it, and to notice what I preferred instead. Not power-ridden monuments, but individual buildings which tell a quieter story: the artist's studio, or the Belle Epoque house built by a forgotten financier for a just-remembered courtesan.
But I’ve been turning over in my mind the question of nostalgia, and whether I suffer from it. I certainly don’t get soggy at the memory of some childhood knickknack; nor do I want to deceive myself sentimentally about something that wasn’t even true at the time—love of the old school, and so on. But if nostalgia means the powerful recollection of strong emotions—and a regret that such feelings are no longer present in our lives—then I plead guilty.
And that's a life, isn't it? Some achievements and some disappointments. It's been interesting to me, though I wouldn't complain or be amazed if others found it less so. Maybe, in a way, Adrian knew what he was doing. Not that I would have missed my own life for anything, you understand. [pp.60-61]
Every love story is a potential grief story.
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Men are equal; it is not birth but virtue that makes the difference.
Fear the sins that you commit in secret, because the Witness of those sins is the Judge Himself!
Liberty consists in doing what one desires.
If one person has a right to something he did not earn, of necessity it requires that another person not have a right to something that he did earn.