And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.
His vices were the vices of his time and culture, but his virtues transcended the milieu of his life.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on how an individual's flaws are often shaped by their environment, while their positive qualities can rise above those limitations.
Orson Scott Card's quote suggests that the faults or weaknesses a person exhibits are largely influenced by the societal norms and values of their time and culture. However, it also emphasizes that one's virtues—such as kindness, integrity, and compassion—can transcend these external factors, possibly indicating that true character is defined by those innate qualities rather than by the imperfections that one may inherit from their surroundings.
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Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a discussion on moral philosophy to illustrate the interplay between individual values and societal influences.
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