To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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I took the vow of celibacy in 1906. I had not shared my thoughts with my wife until then, but only consulted her at the time of making the vow. She had no objection.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects Gandhi's commitment to celibacy and the importance of communication in relationships, even in personal vows.
In this quote, Mahatma Gandhi discusses his decision to take a vow of celibacy in 1906, which he made without initially sharing his thoughts with his wife. This highlights not only his personal commitment to his principles but also illustrates the dynamics of his marriage, emphasizing the significance of mutual understanding and consent in relationships.
Themes
CelibacyCommitmentRelationshipsCommunicationMarriage
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal commitments and how they impact relationships, Gandhi's quote can illustrate the importance of honesty with partners.
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