We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
The vulgar crowd values friends according to their usefulness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friendship is based on mutual respect and not on personal gain.
Ovid's quote reflects the idea that many people evaluate their relationships based on what they can gain or benefit from them, rather than valuing friends for who they are. This transactional view of friendship highlights a lack of genuine connection, as true friends are those who support each other without ulterior motives.
Themes
FriendshipValueRelationshipsUsefulnessSupport
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech at a networking event, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of authentic relationships over opportunistic ones.
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