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What war has always been is a puberty ceremony. It's a very rough one, but you went away a boy and came back a man, maybe with an eye missing or whatever but godammit you were a man and people had to call you a man thereafter.
Kurt Vonnegut
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What this quote means

War serves as a brutal rite of passage that transforms boys into men.

In this quote, Kurt Vonnegut metaphorically describes war as a difficult and violent initiation that forces young men to confront the harsh realities of life, leading to their emotional and social maturation. Despite the traumas and losses they endure, those who return from war are irrevocably changed and are expected to fulfill the societal role of a man.

Themes

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Example use cases

During a veterans' gathering, this quote could be shared to reflect on the deep transformations experienced during war.

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