The way we respond to criticism pretty much depends on the way we respond to praise. If praise humbles us, then criticism will build us up. But if praise inflates us, then criticism will crush us; and both responses lead to our defeat.
Interpretation
Our reactions to both praise and criticism shape our character and resilience.
Warren W. Wiersbe highlights the interconnectedness of how we accept praise and how we handle criticism. If we allow praise to humble us, we can use criticism as a tool for personal growth, but if we become arrogant from praise, then criticism can lead to a destructive mindset, ultimately causing our downfall. Thus, the essence of the quote is about maintaining humility and a balanced perspective in the face of both positive and negative feedback.
In practice
In a leadership seminar, this quote can be used to discuss how leaders should balance feedback.
Nothing paralyzes our lives like the attitude that things can never change. We need to remind ourselves that God can change things. Outlook determines outcome. If we see only the problems, we will be defeated; but if we see the possibilities in the problems, we can have victory.
The ability to calm your soul and wait before God is one of the most difficult things in the Christian life. Our old nature is restless... the world around us is frantically in a hurry. But a restless heart usually leads to a reckless life.
If you are going to live by faith, then expect your faith to be tested. A faith that can't be tested can't be trusted.
People who walk by faith don't see obstacles, they see opportunities.
Hypocrisy means deliberately pretending. None of us lives up to his ideals; none of us is all that he would like to be or all that he could be in Christ. But that is not hypocrisy. Falling short of our ideals is not hypocrisy. Pretending we have reached our ideals when we have not - that is hypocrisy.
We have little control over the circumstances of life. We can't control the weather or the economy, and we can't control what other people say about or do to us. There is only one area where we have control--we can rule the kingdom inside. The heart of every problem is the problem in the heart.
I am my own best friend and my own worst enemy. Before coming here, I was thinking I don't deserve it, that i wouldn't be able to meet your expectations, and that you had probably chosen the wrong candidate. At the same time, my heart was telling me that i was being rewarded because i hadn't given up and had fought to the end
Give every man thine ear, but few thy voice; Take each man's censure, but reserve thy judgment.
If you can't beat 'em, confuse 'em.
He who trusts secrets to a servant makes him his master
Until the juice ferments a while in the cask, it isn't wine. If you wish your heart to be bright, you must do a little work.
In the space between stimulus (what happens) and how we respond, lies our freedom to choose. Ultimately, this power to choose is what defines us as human beings. We may have limited choices but we can always choose. We can choose our thoughts, emotions, moods, our words, our actions; we can choose our values and live by principles. It is the choice of acting or being acted upon.
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