My parents said to us, practically on a daily basis, that we were as good as anyone else on this earth, and that we would simply have to work harder in order to show that.
Jessye NormanRead
If you send up a weather vane or put your thumb up in the air every time you want to do something different, to find out what people are going to think about it, you're going to limit yourself. That's a very strange way to live.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Seeking approval from others can hinder personal growth and decision-making.
This quote underscores the idea that constantly looking for external validation before making decisions can restrict one's potential and individuality. It suggests that living life based on others' opinions leads to a lack of authenticity and fulfillment, urging individuals to trust their instincts instead of seeking approval for every choice they make.
Themes
ApprovalValidationIndividualityAuthenticityDecision-Making
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth, you might say, 'As Jessye Norman wisely points out, living for others' approval limits our true potential.'
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I love singing jazz. I don't like the idea that classical music should be over here and jazz should be someplace else. It's all wonderful, and we should be open to enjoying it all.
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