A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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Whatever men expect, they soon come to think they have a right to; the sense of disappointment can, with very little skill on our part, be turned into a sense of injury. (senior devil speaking)
Interpretation
What this quote means
Expectations can lead to feelings of entitlement and disappointment when not met.
This quote by C. S. Lewis highlights the concept of expectations and how they shape our perceptions of entitlement. When individuals anticipate certain outcomes or behaviors from others, they may feel that these expectations create a right to them, and if those expectations are not realized, they often feel a sense of injury or disappointment, which can be manipulated to fuel further negativity in relationships or society at large.
Themes
ExpectationsDisappointmentEntitlementInjuryRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about managing expectations in personal relationships.
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