Kinder than is necessary. Because it's not enough to be kind. One should be kinder than needed.
R. J. PalacioRead
Whenever there is a conflict between being right and being kind, if possible, choose being kind.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Prioritize kindness over being right in conflicts when you can.
This quote emphasizes the importance of compassion and kindness in our interactions with others, especially during disagreements. It reminds us that winning an argument or proving our point is less valuable than maintaining harmony and understanding in our relationships, advocating for a more empathetic approach when conflicts arise.
Themes
KindnessConflictRelationshipsCompassionUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
A teacher could use this quote during a discussion about how to handle disputes among students.
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