A good laugh is a mighty good thing, and rather too scarce a good thing; the more's the pity. So, if any one man, in his own proper person, afford stuff for a good joke to anybody, let him not be backward, but let him cheerfully allow himself to spend and be spent in that way. And the man that has anything bountifully laughable about him, be sure there is more in that man than you perhaps think for.
Woe to him whom this world charms from Gospel duty. Woe to him who seeks to pour oil upon the waters when God has brewed them into a gale. Woe to him who seeks to please rather than to appal. Woe to him whose good name is more to him than goodness. Woe to him who, in this world, courts not dishonor! Woe to him who would not be true, even though to be false were salvation. Yea, woe to him who, as the great Pilot Paul has it, while preaching to others is himself a castaway.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote warns against the dangers of prioritizing worldly charm and approval over genuine moral duty and integrity.
Herman Melville's quote conveys the tragic fate of those who allow societal pressures and desires to distract them from their true ethical responsibilities. It emphasizes the importance of remaining steadfast in one's moral commitments, even when faced with the temptation to conform or seek approval. The phrase illustrates a profound concern for authenticity and integrity in the face of external influences, suggesting that surrendering to such charm can lead to a loss of one's true self and moral standing.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a graduation speech to emphasize the importance of staying true to one's values in a changing world.
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