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The woman doesn't look up. It's as if she's deaf. Maybe she is. Maybe she's like the Cambodian women I've read about, the ones who witnessed so many atrocities that they have willed themselves blind. Maybe that's what you have to do sometimes to survive. You kill off part of yourself, your hearing or eyesight, your capacity for hope.
Ron Rash
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote illustrates the survival mechanisms people develop in response to trauma.

This quote reflects on the deep psychological impact of trauma, suggesting that some individuals may subconsciously shut down their senses or emotions as a coping strategy to endure extreme suffering. It hints at the idea that survival often comes at a cost, leading individuals to sacrifice their ability to perceive joy or hope in order to navigate through harsh realities.

Themes

TraumaSurvivalCopingHopeBlindness

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about mental health, this quote can illustrate the effects of trauma on perception.

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