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Woman must come of age by herself. This is the essence of 'coming of age'-to learn how to stand alone. She must learn not to depend on another, nor to feel she must prove her strength by competing with another. In the past, she has swung between these two opposite poles of dependence and competition, of Victorianism and Feminism. Both extremes throw her off balance; neither is the center, the true center of being a whole woman. She must find her true center alone. She must become whole.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh
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What this quote means

A woman's journey to maturity requires independence and self-discovery, rather than relying on others or engaging in competition.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh emphasizes the importance of women finding their own identity and strength through self-reliance rather than dependence on others or vying for superiority. She critiques the historical extremes of Victorianism and Feminism, suggesting that true empowerment comes from centering oneself and learning to stand alone, which leads to wholeness and balance in identity.

Themes

IndependenceSelf-DiscoveryStrengthWomenBalance

In practice

Example use cases

In a women's empowerment seminar, you could use this quote to inspire attendees to embrace their individuality.

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