A culture fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in women’s history; a quietly mad population is a tractable one.
Women have face-lifts in a society in which women without them appear to vanish from sight.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the societal pressure on women to conform to beauty standards, suggesting that aging or natural appearances are often overlooked.
Naomi Wolf's quote reflects on the intense societal expectations and pressures that women face regarding their appearance. It underscores the idea that in contemporary culture, the pursuit of youth and beauty has become so paramount that women who do not engage in practices like face-lifts are marginalized or ignored. This commentary prompts a critical examination of how society values women primarily based on their looks rather than their inherent worth or contributions.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a women's empowerment speech to discuss beauty standards.
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