As a parent, if give yourself what you need, your children will watch you doing that and will give themselves what they need.
Susan CainRead
Imagine a world where mothers take as good care of themselves as they do their children and a world where mothers are so supported they're able to do that. That's the world we all need to create because our children, families, and communities are depending on us.
Interpretation
Mothers should prioritize their own well-being to better support their families and communities.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-care for mothers, suggesting that when mothers take care of themselves, they can better nurture and support their children and families. It calls for a societal shift where mothers receive the support they need to maintain their own health and happiness, which in turn benefits the entire community.
In practice
During a parenting seminar, to highlight the importance of maternal self-care.
As a parent, if give yourself what you need, your children will watch you doing that and will give themselves what they need.
The abused children are alone with their suffering, not only within the family, but also within themselves. They cannot crate a place in their own soul where they could cry their beart out.
I love my mother, but there has been, ever since my boyhood, a sort of coldness of intercourse between us, such as is apt to come between people of strong feelings.
Whenever I feel mom-guilt, or I feel pressure to be a better mom - to cook salmon on a bed of quinoa for my kids - I just think to myself, 'I... have... suffered... enough.' And then I feel fine about feeding my toddler a bag of chips for dinner.
As a parent you try to maintain a certain amount of control and so you have this tug-of-war ... You have to learn when to let go. And that's not easy.
It behooves a father to be blameless if he expects his child to be.
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