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I would advise you against defensiveness on priciple. it precludes the best eventualities along with the worst. At the most basic level it expresses a lack of faith.
Marilynne Robinson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Being defensive inhibits positive outcomes and demonstrates a lack of trust.

Marilynne Robinson's quote suggests that defensiveness is counterproductive, preventing one from experiencing the best possible outcomes while also safeguarding against the worst. It highlights how a defensive stance often stems from insecurity and a lack of belief in oneself or the situation at hand, thereby limiting potential growth and connection with others.

Themes

DefensivenessFaithTrustGrowthOutcomes

In practice

Example use cases

In a team meeting discussing project strategies, one might quote this to encourage open-mindedness.

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