We would not have been a successful family without my father and stepfather, who were working-class men with better dreams for their children. We just wore them out.
James McbrideRead
It would be nice if we redefined what we meant by 'war story.' If you're making $15,000 a year living in a certain area of Portland, trying to make it with three kids and no husband, that's a kind of war.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that personal struggles can be viewed as battles worth telling, akin to traditional war stories.
James McBride's quote challenges the conventional notion of a 'war story' by highlighting the daily struggles and hardships faced by individuals, particularly those grappling with financial difficulties and family responsibilities. He emphasizes that these personal battles, which may not fit the standard definition of wartime experiences, are equally significant and deserving of recognition and dialogue.
Themes
War StoryStruggleFamilyIdentityCourage
In practice
Example use cases
During a community meeting, someone quoted McBride to emphasize the importance of sharing personal struggles.
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