There were worse things than death, as she'd discovered. Sometimes living took far more courage. Facing another day. Enduring. Those things took strength. Far more than dying.
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But if I lost you, it would devastate me as nothing else has or ever could. You have so much power over me and that’s frightening.
Interpretation
The speaker expresses deep emotional dependency on a loved one, fearing the devastation of losing them.
This quote portrays the profound impact that love can have on an individual, illustrating both the strength of the connection and the vulnerability it creates. The speaker acknowledges that the fear of losing their partner invokes a feeling of helplessness, highlighting the intense emotional stakes involved in a deep romantic relationship.
In practice
During a heartfelt conversation about relationships, I shared this quote to illustrate the weight of love.
There were worse things than death, as she'd discovered. Sometimes living took far more courage. Facing another day. Enduring. Those things took strength. Far more than dying.
Apparently two, but one in soul, you and I.
In the dime stores and bus stations People talk of situations Read books, repeat quotations Draw conclusions on the wall Some speak of the future My love she speaks softly She knows there’s no success like failure And that failure’s no success at all -Bob Dylan, “Love Minus Zero / No Limit” (1965)
They loved each other, not driven by necessity, by the "blaze of passion" often falsely ascribed to love. They loved each other because everything around them willed it, the trees and the clouds and the sky over their heads and the earth under their feet.
Your life has purpose as long as you dedicate it to love. It's not what we do but who we are that forms our biggest contribution.
“God,” she cried, “what is love? Man seeking his own head? The human head, so rented by misery that even the teeth weigh! She couldn't tell me the truth because she had never planned it; her life was a continual accident, and how can you be prepared for that? Everything we can't bear in this world, some day we find in one person, and love it all at once.”
Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,'I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I'm signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It's going to be hard but I want to get there.
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