Before I sat down and became a writer, before I began to do it habitually and for my living, there was a decades-long stretch when I was terrified that it would suck, so I didn't write. I think that marks a lot of people, a real terror at being bad at something, and unfortunately, you are always bad before you can get a little better.
Interpretation
Writing can be intimidating, but improvement comes through practice despite initial fears of inadequacy.
In this quote, David Rakoff reflects on his journey as a writer, highlighting the fear that many feel before embarking on a creative endeavor. He acknowledges that the fear of being bad at something can be paralyzing, but emphasizes that improvement is a gradual process that requires overcoming initial insecurities and embracing the learning curve.
In practice
In a creative writing workshop, to encourage participants to share their first drafts.
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