It is wrong to wear diamonds before luncheon, except on one’s marriage rings. Before, after, and during breakfast, luncheon and dinner, it is vulgar to wear a mixture of colored precious stones. It is always a comfort to know that so many things one can’t afford to do anyway are vulgar.
Allowing an unimportant mistake to pass without comment is a wonderful social grace. - Judith Martin
Allowing an unimportant mistake to pass without comment is a wonderful social grace.
- Judith Martin
Dishonesty is not the only alternative to honesty. There is also the highly underrated virtue of shutting up. - Judith Martin
Dishonesty is not the only alternative to honesty. There is also the highly underrated virtue of shutting up.
Perhaps the greatest rudenesses of our time come not from the callousness of strangers, but from the solicitousness of intimates who believe that the… - Judith Martin
Perhaps the greatest rudenesses of our time come not from the callousness of strangers, but from the solicitousness of intimates who believe that the…
If you can't be kind, at least be vague. - Judith Martin
If you can't be kind, at least be vague.
We are all entitled to our little harmless habits, but we are not entitled to demand approval for them. - Judith Martin
We are all entitled to our little harmless habits, but we are not entitled to demand approval for them.
Adorable children are considered to be the general property of the human race. Rude children belong to their mothers. - Judith Martin
Adorable children are considered to be the general property of the human race. Rude children belong to their mothers.
It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help. - Judith Martin
It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
Do you have a kinder, more adaptable friend in the food world than soup? Who soothes you when you are ill? Who refuses to leave you when you are impo… - Judith Martin
Do you have a kinder, more adaptable friend in the food world than soup? Who soothes you when you are ill? Who refuses to leave you when you are impo…
If it's against state law, it's generally considered a breach of Etiquette. - Judith Martin
If it's against state law, it's generally considered a breach of Etiquette.
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