I now realize that I am a gay man before anything else. Other gays may think they're a Jew first, or black, or a banker, but I'm gay.
Larry KramerRead
I was at Yale from 1953 to 1957, and I tried to commit suicide in my freshman year because I was gay, and I thought I was the only person in the school who was. I was just totally and utterly miserable.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the struggles of being different and the pain of feeling isolated in one's identity.
Larry Kramer shares a deeply personal experience of his time at Yale, where he faced immense emotional turmoil as a gay student during a period of societal stigma. His quote reflects the loneliness and despair felt by individuals who believe they are alone in their struggles, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and support in fostering well-being among marginalized communities.
Themes
GayIsolationMental HealthAcceptanceIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
During a pride event, to emphasize the importance of support for LGBTQ+ youth.
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