I am an ordinary person who has been blessed with extraordinary opportunities and experiences.
Sonia SotomayorRead
I have spent my years since Princeton, while at law school and in my various professional jobs, not feeling completely a part of the worlds I inhabit. I am always looking over my shoulder wondering if I measure up.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a persistent feeling of inadequacy and longing for belonging in different environments.
Sonia Sotomayor expresses her feelings of alienation and self-doubt throughout her educational and professional journey. Despite her accomplishments, she grapples with the uncertainty of whether she fits into the worlds she navigates, highlighting a common struggle many face in their pursuit of success and acceptance.
In practice
In a graduation speech to highlight the importance of self-acceptance.
I am an ordinary person who has been blessed with extraordinary opportunities and experiences.
This wealth of experiences, personal and professional, have helped me appreciate the variety of perspectives that present themselves in every case that I hear.
I was fifteen years old when I understood how it is that things break down: people can't imagine someone else's point of view.
The truth is that since childhood I had cultivated an existential independence. It came from perceiving the adults around me as unreliable, and without it I felt I wouldn't have survived. I cared deeply for everyone in my family, but in the end I depended on myself.
As you discover what strength you can draw from your community in this world from which it stands apart, look outward as well as inward. Build bridges instead of walls.
There are uses to adversity, and they don't reveal themselves until tested. Whether it's serious illness, financial hardship, or the simple constraint of parents who speak limited English, difficulty can tap unexpected strengths.
Organisation can never be a substitute for initiative and for judgement.
One can't fight with oneself, for this battle has only one loser.
The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or humiliated. And the only thing people regret is that they didn't live boldly enough, that they didn't invest enough heart, didn't love enough. Nothing else really counts at all.
Take care with the end as you do with the beginning
It's not a very big step from contentment to complacency.
If we Pause and breathe in and out, then we can have the experience of timeless presence, of the inexpressible wisdom and goodness of our own minds. We can look at the world with fresh eyes and hear things with fresh ears.
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