We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
As the yellow gold is tried in fire, so the faith of friendship must be seen in adversity.
Interpretation
True friendship is tested during difficult times.
Ovid's quote highlights the idea that genuine friendships are revealed in challenging circumstances, much like how gold is purified and tested for quality by fire. Adversity serves as a crucible for friendships, allowing individuals to see who truly stands by them during tough times, thus reinforcing the notion that a reliable friend is one who remains steadfast when faced with difficulties.
In practice
This quote can be used as a reminder during a gathering of friends going through tough times.
We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
All things human hang by a slender thread; and that which seemed to stand strong suddenly falls and sinks in ruins.
A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
Every record I have done was because I was a person's friend. The only time we did not continue to be friends was if the record did not become a hit. If it did, we became great friends.
Of all the things which wisdom provides to make us entirely happy, much the greatest is the possession of friendship.
And I'm up while the dawn is breaking, even though my heart is aching. I should be drinking a toast to absent friends instead of these comedians.
Prominence is cool, but when the delusion kicks in it can be a drag. Especially if you choose to surround yourself with friends and not acolytes.
I don't have many friends; I'm very much a loner. As a child I was very isolated and I've never been really close to anyone.
Talk well of the absent whenever you have the opportunity.
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