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You'll get used to it. In the end you won't even notice it anymore," he said. "How is that possible? It will always be there, right before my eyes." "Exactly," said Mattia. "Which is precisely why you won't see it anymore.
Paolo Giordano
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Familiarity can lead to a lack of awareness regarding what is always present.

This quote reflects on the human tendency to become desensitized to the things we are constantly exposed to. As we become accustomed to our surroundings or experiences, we often stop noticing them, despite their constant presence, highlighting the paradox of perception and the nature of attention.

Themes

FamiliarityPerceptionAwarenessAttentionDesensitization

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational talk about adapting to change, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of evolving perspectives.

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